Divorce is one of the most challenging experiences in life, and when children are involved, the emotional and legal complexities are even more significant. Parents may find themselves at odds over custody and placement arrangements, which directly affect their relationship with their children post-divorce. Understanding the legal distinctions between custody and placement, as well as the factors that courts consider in making these decisions, is critical for parents facing divorce.

If you’re dealing with custody issues or seeking to modify a custody order, knowing the steps to take and the considerations involved will help you navigate this difficult process. Below is a detailed guide to help you understand custody and placement, the factors that influence court decisions, and the steps involved in modifying custody orders.

What’s the Difference Between Custody and Placement?

Many parents are confused by the terms custody and placement, but these terms have distinct meanings in family law.

Custody refers to the legal right to make important decisions for the child. These decisions may include choices about the child’s education, healthcare, and religious upbringing. There are two types of custody:

  • Joint Custody: In joint custody, both parents share the responsibility for making major decisions in the child’s life. This arrangement is typically preferred by courts because it allows both parents to maintain an active role in the child’s upbringing. Joint custody works best when parents can cooperate and make decisions together. 
  • Sole Custody: In sole custody, one parent has the exclusive right to make decisions for the child. This might be granted if the court finds that one parent is better equipped to make decisions for the child, or if there are concerns about the other parent’s ability to provide for the child’s well-being. 

Placement, on the other hand, refers to where the child physically resides, specifically where they spend their overnight stays. The child’s placement is determined based on what the court deems to be in the best interests of the child. Placement arrangements can vary greatly depending on the circumstances, and they don’t necessarily align with custody arrangements. For example, parents may share joint custody but have different placement schedules, where the child spends time with each parent based on their needs and the parents’ availability.

Understanding these distinctions is crucial because the legal implications of custody and placement vary. Parents may have shared custody but different placement schedules or may have sole custody with a shared placement arrangement.

Key Factors the Court Considers in Custody and Placement Decisions

When a divorce involves children, the court’s primary focus is always the best interests of the child. The court takes several factors into consideration when determining custody and placement arrangements, as these decisions have long-term implications for the child’s emotional, physical, and mental well-being.

Here are some of the most important factors the court will consider:

  • Co-Parenting Ability: Courts generally favor situations where both parents can cooperate and communicate effectively to make decisions regarding the child’s welfare. If parents have a history of conflict or difficulty working together, joint custody may be less likely, and sole custody may be considered. 
  • The Wishes of the Child: Depending on the age and maturity of the child, the court may take the child’s wishes into account. However, the weight given to the child’s preferences will vary depending on the child’s age and ability to make sound decisions. 
  • The Wishes of the Parents: The court will consider the wishes of both parents regarding custody and placement. However, parental preference will not outweigh the child’s best interests. 
  • Domestic Violence or Abuse: Any history of domestic violence or abuse will heavily influence the court’s decision-making. The safety and welfare of the child are the court’s primary concern, and if there is evidence of abuse, the court may grant sole custody to the parent who is considered the safer environment for the child. 
  • Stability and Continuity of Care: Courts often seek to minimize disruption in a child’s life. If one parent has been the primary caregiver, the court may consider maintaining continuity for the child to ensure that they are not uprooted from their familiar environment. 
  • Parental Fitness: If a parent is deemed unfit, due to substance abuse, mental illness, or other factors, this could heavily influence the court’s decision. The court will assess each parent’s ability to provide a stable, nurturing environment for the child. 

Modifying a Custody Order: What You Need to Know

After the court issues a custody and placement order, parents may find that circumstances change. Whether it’s due to a change in one parent’s living situation, a move to another city, or changes in the child’s needs, it’s possible to modify an existing custody or placement order. However, modifying a custody order isn’t easy, and there are specific legal requirements that must be met.

To modify a custody order, a parent must file a motion to modify custody, which must be accompanied by an affidavit detailing the reasons for the modification. The parent requesting the modification must show that there has been a substantial change in circumstances since the original custody order was issued.

Substantial changes could include:

  • A parent moving a significant distance away, affecting the child’s placement schedule. 
  • Changes in the child’s needs, such as health or educational issues that require a change in custody or placement arrangements. 
  • A significant change in a parent’s ability to care for the child, such as a new marriage or a change in employment status. 

However, there are some limitations when modifying custody. If the original order was issued within the last two years, the parent seeking a modification must also show that the change would result in harm to the child. This makes it more difficult to modify custody within the first two years after an order is put in place.

If a parent is considering modifying a custody order, it’s crucial to consult with an attorney to determine whether the situation meets the criteria for modification.

Moving With a Child After Divorce: What Are the Rules?

One common issue that arises after divorce is the potential for one parent to move with the child. If you plan to relocate with your child after divorce, you must be aware of the legal restrictions in place. In Wisconsin, you cannot move with your child more than 100 miles away without filing a motion with the court and receiving approval. Even if the move is within 100 miles, it may still require court approval if it creates a disruption in the child’s current placement order.

Moving without proper legal approval can result in significant consequences, including the need for a custody modification hearing. If you’re planning to move with your child, be sure to consult with your attorney to determine whether you need to seek permission from the court or the other parent before making the move.

How to Protect Your Rights in Custody and Placement Disputes

Navigating custody and placement decisions can be complex, especially if both parents disagree on what’s best for the child. To ensure that your rights as a parent are protected and that the best interests of your child are considered, it’s important to seek legal guidance from an experienced family law attorney. A lawyer can help you understand the legal framework, provide guidance on filing a modification, and represent your interests in court if necessary.

If you’re facing custody or placement issues in divorce, or if you need to modify an existing order, don’t navigate the process alone. The experienced team at Renier Hotopp Law Offices can help you understand your rights and make informed decisions that are in the best interests of your child.

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Lindsay Renier Family Law Attorney
Lindsay Renier is a Wisconsin divorce and child custody attorney and the founder of Renier Hotopp Law Offices. She guides parents and spouses across Wisconsin through divorce, custody, and placement, helping them protect their children and their futures during difficult transitions.